A few weeks ago I went to my first Sydney Spoolettes Frocktails event. I have been part of Sydney Spoolettes Facebook page for a number of years introduced by a fellow sewing enthusiast Anne Whalley . This is what I wore .

I made this a few years ago, the silk shirt dress using this pattern but I changed the sleeve to a wide sleeve and I had a thin self binding at the wrist. French seams throughout.

I finished the neck edges with self bind and the hem as well. I used shell buttons , with a covered button band . So they aren’t visible when done up.

The pants were purchased a number of years ago.

The experience of Frocktails was new to me . I had never been before , and it was new in my wheelchair experience. I rarely go out in it on my own to functions. I was the only attendee in a wheelchair and it was quite a crowded room.

Everyone was lovely , and I enjoyed seeing the outfits everyone wore but it was hard for me to move around the room. I ended up parked out of the way in a corner almost under a table. I don’t think I will go again as it was somewhat isolating. I found it hard to hear and couldn’t get around to see anyone I knew. I did meet some lovely new people however but I didn’t feel like I could really enjoy myself. My trousers were hard to put on , so I decided that I wouldn’t be able to go to the bathroom while at the function , as such I ate little and didn’t finish a drink.

Now I am also struggling to stand from the wheelchair , so I need assistance if I am in it.

I am no longer able to use the stairs , my legs have lost some muscle so that changes things. My hands and arms fatigue easily these days so I have to factor recovery time into every activity.

I am alone most days. My husband and son work full time . I have a carer a few times in the week and my trainer and physio each week. But I am stuck inside as I can’t get out of the house. I can leave if someone is here to let me out and back in , but if not I am just here.

My sewing area is now downstairs in our games room. I can only sew if I organise for someone to turn on the power points for me . I want to sew but need assistance to actually get enough done

I am not looking forward to what’s ahead of me, I am alone in this nightmare , whatever is coming, and I am terrified of what happens next.

I hope you are able to be creative without limitations.

Happy Sewing,

Sue🙂